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ant's avatar

I was a stone top between the ages of 19 and 24, which are objectively the funniest years to be a stone top. Sex has always been safest to me as an act of voyeurism and deference. My first girlfriend asked why I always kissed with my eyes wide open. “What’s the point if I can’t see you?”

i don't know how much i like relating to this, but anyway thank you for the article :)

sam bodrojan's avatar

Thank u for reading!!

ant's avatar

ofc wouldn’t miss a helmet girl article 🫡 also not gonna say which one to leave you with the surprise but there’s a film coming out this year that i’m sure you already want to watch that is somewhat about what your article is about

sam bodrojan's avatar

I literally know what you’re talking about and may or may not already have an outlet to write about it…

ant's avatar

hahahaha shoot ! well, excited to see what you'll write about it

Jaxx r's avatar

excellently written as always, coming away with feelings I am nowhere near eloquent enough to describe.

thank you.

Daniel Solow's avatar

> I wonder, sometimes, if I’d like dissociate during sex less if I hadn’t been groomed online. Hypotheticals like that are not particularly useful, but they are inevitable.

You can't change the past, but I think hypotheticals are an important part of understanding the present and understanding yourself. The way unrestrained technology has been inflicted on young people is a tragedy. The more honesty on this subject, the better.

Seeing your clone on omegle reminds me of the great horror movie Cam (2018).

sam bodrojan's avatar

Loveee Cam!!!

Chloe B's avatar

This is great. Those what-ifs are so hard, like would I be different if this hadn't happened? I feel jealous of people who can just have sex, like it's easy for them as a physical process. I dissociate pretty badly too - it makes me feel guilty for not being fully present.

sam bodrojan's avatar

The guilt is palpable and I’d do hard to extend yourself the grace and patience you deserve

Exa Moseley's avatar

great writing this was so good

sam bodrojan's avatar

Ty exa let’s play sts2 soon

francis's avatar

love you my sweet very good stuff

sam bodrojan's avatar

Love u miss u

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miss u :( soon

Max's avatar

Thanks for a great read, and shoutout to Me and You and Everyone We Know

sam bodrojan's avatar

What a tender movie

veronica's avatar

damn